Don’t ask me
for exact amounts. If I had to make it
again I could only figure it out by taste.
Making it required quite a bit of trial and error. It was hard won and it took a lot of trying.
I’m not sure
what prompted me to make my own dressing for our salad last night, but it
seemed that among the many options on the store shelf – bleu cheese, ranch or
honey mustard – this was the healthiest.
Still, it strikes me as thought-provoking that such unlike things can go
together; sugar and salt, peanut butter and vinegar, sweet and savory.
I believe
that unlike things are meant to go together.
This is part of the divine plan.
I often get asked the question “Do you have to go to church to be a Christian?” (Actually more often, I get informed of the belief that one does not.) My response for those who are willing to listen is always the same. God calls us to be in community.
I often get asked the question “Do you have to go to church to be a Christian?” (Actually more often, I get informed of the belief that one does not.) My response for those who are willing to listen is always the same. God calls us to be in community.
To be a
Christian by ourselves is the easy part.
On our own, there is no one to challenge our beliefs or actions, nobody
to threaten our comfort, no one to compel us into unpleasant practices like self-assessment,
forgiveness, patience and growth. In the
extended family known as church, we are forced (I believe this is on purpose)
to rub up against one another like sandpaper.
It isn’t comfortable. It isn’t
meant to be. But we grow through the
process. Our edges are smoothed and we
become much more beautiful and useful to our Creator.
I think this
is true in our individual church communities and in our general, world-wide
church.
Recently, a
vocal group of pastors and church leaders ignited a lot of talk about the
“schism” said to be happening in the United Methodist Church. Apparently, some consider the controversies
of our time to be insurmountable and the presence of differing opinions
tantamount to division in our denomination.
There are calls to make official the separation that is already thought
to be in progress, and to vote at General Conference for a formal split.
My feeling
about this is the same as my belief about why we need to go to church. God calls us into community. It is not supposed to be easy. We are not always supposed to be of one mind
or identical feelings. We need not
always even like each other that much
as we navigate the thorny and obstacle-ridden path we have to follow as those
who call themselves the Body of Christ.
There will certainly be days when we are less than fond of each other
and each other’s perspectives. The whole
point, however, is to strengthen ourselves so that we can deal with those
unpleasant realities and still behave somewhat like our savior; in love toward
each other and as an example to our world.
They say
that oil and water don’t mix. By and
large this is true. Maybe our church,
with all of its factions, is just like oil and water. Maybe – though I doubt it – our differences
are irreconcilable. Maybe – though I
doubt it – we can never blend. But even
if oil and water don’t mix, unalike things can still be put together to make a
damn fine vinaigrette. And may I add
that among the many options you have on a store shelf, this is often the healthiest.
Such
mixtures can be made to work, but it might take some trial and error. They will be hard won and they will take a
lot of trying.